[ The sharp-eyed look he gives her next might be considered an intense stare by some. ]

I do believe you're blowing some of this out of proportion. This is not the stuff of science fiction. Indeed, that should be clear by the fact that it has actually occurred.

[ His gaze becomes a bit softer then. ]

I understand that it will be difficult to accept for a while. But you should not need to cause a riot over it, since you are merely one individual who is experiencing this. Remember, also, that you have the network to discuss your feelings over this matter.