"Both, I guess." She meets his salute with one of her own, and downs her glass in one go.

"The ... experience was. Very traumatic. I tried to talk to him about it and he didn't believe me, which. I mean, who would? But he wouldn't even talk about it, told me I was being crazy and dramatic. And it was like, 'why am I even with you?' So I walked out, cut off the engagement. Lost all my friends, the apartment, everything. Moved into my parents' basement."